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Life Lesson #4: Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

 I once read a snippet called  ”The 45 Lessons Life Taught Me.”  It is one of my favorite pieces; consequently, I’m going to illustrate each lesson on this blog.  In the end, I hope you’re as inspired as I am to make each day better than the last

Life Lesson #4: Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

As humans, we’re pretty egotistical beings.  It’s just the way we’ve been wired.  From little on up, we tend to react to life with a “How does this affect me?” attitude.

And that’s good.  Well, it can be.  But it can also result in us becoming way too serious.  That’s just a waste of precious time.

See, what winds up happening is that we start to take everything so seriously that we stop taking chances.  We get so caught up in worrying about everything that we allow fear to overtake our lives.  “What will happen if I…?”  “What will they think of me if I suggest…?”   We become toxic thinkers to ourselves.

So stop, already!

It’s time to take life lightly.  Now.  You can be serious about your dental practice management, but don’t walk around like the weight of the world is on your shoulders.  Don’t be afraid to dance in the rain, sing in the shower or play jump rope with your kids (even if you’re highly uncoordinated.)  Don’t be afraid to look a tad silly.  Sometimes it feels good to do so.  It’s okay! 

Happy people are those who can allow themselves to be free.  And others are attracted to that freedom of character. 

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    Life Lesson #1: Life Isn’t Fair… But It’s Still Good!

    Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

    To celebrate growing older, I once read a snippet called  ”The 45 Lessons Life Taught Me.”  It is one of my favorite pieces; consequently, I’m going to illustrate each lesson on this blog.  In the end, I hope you’re as inspired as I am to make each day better than the last.

    LESSON #1:  Life Isn’t Fair… But It’s Still Good!

    At an early age, we all come to the realization that life doesn’t necessarily make a whole lot of sense.  The bully gets the coveted spot on the football team.  The kid whose dad obviously completed his science project gets an A+.  Your big sister picks on you incessantly but you’re the one who gets in trouble.

    Life.  Isn’t.  Fair.

    Okay, that’s true… yet it’s critical that we don’t allow that fact to color the way we look at everything.  Unfortunately, too many of us forget that although life doesn’t always work out logically, it still can be awesome.  Sunsets are brilliant, good friends are amazing and good clients make us smile.

    In short, life is good.  Not fair, but good.

    My challenge to you is to remember this the next time something goes wrong in your personal or professional life.  Maybe the dentist you work for chews you out for something that you didn’t do.  Perhaps you get in an accident on the way to work and your car is out of service for days (but you’re okay!)  Or just maybe you feel like you’re stuck in a rut and the whole world – especially given all the dire economic predictions — seems to be conspiring against you.  In those situations, I urge you to look for the positive, the so-called silver filling… er, lining.

    Because life is still good.  It really is. 

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