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Be Careful of BSO’s

Wednesday, August 19th, 2009
Bright-Shiny-Objects

Bright-Shiny-Objects

Running your dental practice requires a lot of energy and focus.

Lately, I have heard a lot from dentists about finding it hard to focus with the amount of work that they have in front of them.  They share that they have charts piling up, systems to write, production to maintain, hygienists to hire, specialists to call and overdue career conferences (reviews) that they have to schedule with team members.  The list goes on forever. 

On top of that, their spouse is calling the practice adding to their “To Do’s” and commitments outside of work are starting to forge their way into much-needed sleep time.

All of these business “To Do’s” are important to the health and vitality of your practice, as much as the personal “To-Do’s” are important to having a happy life.  Getting these disciplines done has become a chore for most dentists.

A major problem in our Attention Deficit World that makes these disciplines harder is BSO’s (Bright-Shiny-Objects).  This problem is especially harmful for dentists. They love BSO’s.  BSO’s don’t nudge you off track…they drag you off track.

BSO’s can be unnecessary email, television shows, too many chocolate chip cookies (my #1 problem), surfing the internet only to forget what you were looking for, People Magazine, new computer equipment, etc. 

BSO’s are shiny in color but lack substance.  They easily distract you from the necessary disciplines that are essential to our everyday lives.  BSO’s can separate spouses, put weight on your body and your schedule, push back deadlines, and add unnecessary debt – but most of all they serve as fake recovery methods for the avoidance of pain (discipline) in our lives.

Be careful of the BSO’s that lack discipline, substance and productivity in your life.

Hope to see you at an event soon!

Kirk

Life Lesson #4: Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

 I once read a snippet called  ”The 45 Lessons Life Taught Me.”  It is one of my favorite pieces; consequently, I’m going to illustrate each lesson on this blog.  In the end, I hope you’re as inspired as I am to make each day better than the last

Life Lesson #4: Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

As humans, we’re pretty egotistical beings.  It’s just the way we’ve been wired.  From little on up, we tend to react to life with a “How does this affect me?” attitude.

And that’s good.  Well, it can be.  But it can also result in us becoming way too serious.  That’s just a waste of precious time.

See, what winds up happening is that we start to take everything so seriously that we stop taking chances.  We get so caught up in worrying about everything that we allow fear to overtake our lives.  “What will happen if I…?”  “What will they think of me if I suggest…?”   We become toxic thinkers to ourselves.

So stop, already!

It’s time to take life lightly.  Now.  You can be serious about your dental practice management, but don’t walk around like the weight of the world is on your shoulders.  Don’t be afraid to dance in the rain, sing in the shower or play jump rope with your kids (even if you’re highly uncoordinated.)  Don’t be afraid to look a tad silly.  Sometimes it feels good to do so.  It’s okay! 

Happy people are those who can allow themselves to be free.  And others are attracted to that freedom of character. 

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